What therapists don't talk about and why : understanding taboos that hurt us and our clients /

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Author / Creator:Pope, Kenneth S.
Edition:1st ed.
Imprint:Washington, DC : American Psychological Association, c2006.
Description:xxix, 199 p. ; 24 cm.
Language:English
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Format: Print Book
URL for this record:http://pi.lib.uchicago.edu/1001/cat/bib/5929852
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Other authors / contributors:Sonne, Janet L.
Greene, Beverly.
ISBN:1591474116 (hardcover)
1591474019 (softcover)
Notes:Includes bibliographical references and index.
Also available on the Internet.
Table of Contents:
  • About the Second Edition
  • Foreword to the Second Edition: Things My Teachers Never Mentioned
  • Foreword to the 1993 Edition
  • Chapter 1. Questioning Myths, Taboos, Secrets, and Uncomfortable Topics
  • Basic Myths About the Psychotherapist
  • The Nature and Reality of Myths, Taboos, Secrets, and Uncomfortable Topics
  • The Process of Questioning Myths, Taboos, Secrets, and Uncomfortable Topics
  • The Proces of Exploration, Discovery, and Learning
  • Chapter 2. Therapists' Sexual Arousals, Attractions, and Fantasies: An Example of a Topic That Isn't There
  • Another Myth
  • Guilt by Association
  • Keeping Dirty Laundry Private
  • "Sensitive Information" About Patients but Not About Therapists
  • Angry, Greedy, Powerful Women and Innocent, Virtuous, Vulnerable Men
  • Higher Premiums
  • "Victimized" by Exclusion?
  • Are Sexual Feelings Harder to Talk About Than Actual Sexual Involvement?
  • Chapter 3. Creating Conditions for Learning
  • Safety
  • Understanding the Task
  • Openness
  • Respect
  • Encouragement
  • Privacy
  • Acceptance
  • Sensitivity
  • Frankness
  • Support
  • Chapter 4. Questions We'd Rather Avoid: A Self-Assessment
  • Questions
  • Chapter 5. Possible Clues to Taboo Topics and Uncomfortable Feelings
  • Therapy Adrift
  • Repetitive Therapy
  • The Discrepant Record
  • The Dehumanized Client
  • The Dehumanized Therapist
  • Avoidance
  • Theory-Obliterated Therapy
  • The Client-Friend
  • Obsession
  • Interesting Slips and Meaningful Mistakes
  • Fantasies, Dreams, Daydreams, and Other Imaginings
  • Undue Special Treatment
  • Isolation of the Client
  • Isolation of the Therapist
  • Creating a Secret
  • Seeking Repeated Reassurance From Colleagues
  • Boredom and Drowsiness as Protective Reactions
  • Chapter 6. Passages and Scenarios for Exploration
  • Beginning and Ending the Session
  • Initial Appointment
  • The Movie
  • The New Client
  • The Therapist's Fear of Showing Feeling: A Passage From Clara Thompson
  • The Perfect Therapist
  • Cognitive-Behavioral Approach to "Ugly": A Passage From Ellen Toby Klass and Joann Paley Galst
  • The Two-Person Practice
  • The Request
  • Telling a Client to Undress During a Therapy Session: A Passage From Milton Erickson
  • Staffing Patterns
  • A Client's Anger at a Therapist's Voyeurism: A Passage From Laura Brown
  • The Requirement
  • Sounds
  • Are Beliefs About Race and Sex Related? A Passage From Leon Williams
  • A Request for Help
  • The Media and the Message
  • Beatings, Grief, Love, and Sex: A Passage From Fritz Perls
  • What You Enjoy
  • A Client in Crisis
  • A Patient's Difficulties Talking About Sexual Fantasies: A Passage From Mardi Horowitz
  • The New Client
  • The Surprise Date
  • A Voyeuristic Response to an Incest Survivor: A Passage From Christine Courtois
  • Adjunctive Therapy
  • The Note
  • Eyes Open
  • No More
  • Your Income
  • Leaving on Vacation
  • Bright, Funny, Articulate, and Likable
  • Normal
  • Fantasizing Love and Marriage With a Patient: A Passage From Harold Searles
  • Saved!
  • The Security Guard
  • The Partner
  • A Therapist Unaware of the Client's Attraction: A Passage From Marny Hall
  • Diagnosis
  • Size
  • Recordings and Photographs
  • A Different Direction
  • Research Data
  • The Right Stuff
  • The Party
  • Misusing the Borderline Diagnosis: A Passage From David Reiser and Hanna Levenson
  • A Strong Reaction
  • Medication
  • A Client Becomes Aroused When Her Therapist Comes to Her Home: A Passage From Helen Block Lewis
  • Descriptions
  • A Suicidal Client
  • The Newspaper
  • Instructing a Client to Imagine Her Breasts Tingling: A Passage From Theodore Barber
  • Feeling Safe
  • Pleasing a Husband
  • Chapter 7. Confronting an Impasse: What Do We Do When We Don't Know What to Do?
  • Consulting
  • Competence
  • Charting
  • Uncharacteristic Behaviors
  • Advances in Theory, Research, and Practice
  • Looking for Logical Flaws
  • The Legal and Ethical Framework
  • Continued Questioning
  • Appendix. "Therapists' Anger, Hate, Fear, and Sexual Feelings: National Survey of Therapist Responses, Client Characteristics, Critical Events, Formal Complaints, and Training"
  • Index
  • About the Authors